Hair loss is a deeply personal and often sensitive topic that can impact individuals in many significant ways. Whether due to conditions like alopecia, cancer, pattern baldness or other causes, addressing someone's hair loss requires empathy and understanding. If you know somebody who has hair loss it is important to consider your words sensitively.
We recently extended the opportunity to those within the hair loss community to send in unwanted comments or questions people have asked about their hair loss which have stuck with them.
Here are some things that we received:
‘How Are You Feeling? My Friend Is Going Through Chemo Too’
Assuming the cause of somebody’s hair loss is never ok, even if you think it is coming from a good or helpful place. One individual shared with us that a stranger had approached her and asked “How are you feeling? My friend is going through chemo too”. Somebody having to explain that they don’t have cancer can be a difficult interaction. Instead of making assumptions, it's crucial to approach the topic with an open mind and let the person share their story when they feel comfortable.
‘It’s Only Hair, it Will Grow Back’
For some people, losing their hair can be an emotional rollercoaster. Depending on the type of hair loss, the experience can have a huge impact on not only your physical but also your mental health. For some individuals, their hair may never grow back or if it does it might not grow back the same as before. Commenting something like “It’s only hair, it will grow back” can be insensitive and hurtful. Each person's experience with hair loss is unique. Minimising anybody’s experience isn’t kind in any situation. It's essential to listen, their feelings are valid.
‘Are You Going to Wear a Wig to My Wedding? I Think It Will Look Better’
One lady wrote in to tell us about the breakdown of her friendship in the lead-up to her childhood friend’s wedding day. Despite not being a regular wig wearer since the beginning of her hair loss journey, she was asked to wear one for her friend’s wedding day. Asking somebody to change their appearance because you think the change will make them look better is upsetting.
‘Have You Tried Coconut Oil? This Helped My Friend’s Hair Grow Back’
We all love the latest TikTok trend but unless you are a hair loss professional, advising how to improve hair regrowth from something you saw on the internet is not helpful… some products are not suited to specific types of hair loss and using these can make the situation worse. At Aderans we have expert trichologists and hair loss specialists who can advise what the best products are for you.
Navigating conversations about hair loss require sensitivity and thoughtfulness. By avoiding assumptions, refraining from comparisons, expressing empathy, and encouraging open dialogue, we can create a more supportive and understanding environment. It is our responsibility to be mindful of our words, recognising that everyone's journey with hair loss is unique, and our role is to offer support and compassion.
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